Its Family is Normal? You know some family who does not have problems of relationships? This is a good question to think about what it could be a healthful family or not. No human being lives without having at some done moment comparisons of as other people take its lives in relation to its proper one. Universal criterion does not exist that can say: If my family is in accordance with this criterion then it is normal. One of the biggest difficulties in the work with families is exactly to define what it is normal or healthful. When trying to make this, inevitably we make use of the comparisons between our points of view and perspectives of what we believe or same of what we learn throughout the life through the experiences and what we use to define normality and health. It will be that to have a healthful family it is to have a family who does not make use itself to have conflicts between its members? I would say that not.
After all what he makes a family to ripen in its relationships? I would say without doubt shade that one of the main factors would be exactly the conflicts, the crises. When I am front the front with a family or same with one or another member of this family who crosses a crisis, I look for to stimulate it (s) to use this crisis as factor personal decrescimento instead of trying to give ready solutions (as if they existed). Crises are fertile lands to work acceptance and rejection, different points of view, preconceptions, lack of social ability. All involved ones if find of some form citizens if to engage in an intense exchange that involves emotions and chances of matureness. Friend () reading (), if you are passing for crisis moments that involve its family, you have something of hopeful saying to it.